Roughly this, every time, and it bends around whatever your day
actually is. The two things that never move are that I arrive before anybody is ready and
I do not ask anybody to do anything twice.
09:00Arrive, say hello, stay out of the way
11:30Rings, shoes, the letter, the nerves
13:00Ceremony, from the back, no flash
14:00Twenty minutes of family, from your list
15:00The two of you, about fifteen minutes
19:00Speeches, then the room as it gets loud
23:00Last frame, usually outside, usually the best